College Love Stories | To Search Your Soulmate in College or Not?

College days are considered to be the best period of our lives. The time when we actually search our

existence is actually going to mean. The junction of adolescence and adulthood, this is the phase when we truly develop and face the real world, coming out of our cocoons. This most interesting chapter, filled with new adventures, experiences, and feelings diverges us towards a bigger world of serious decisions and steps. One of these is, of course, falling in love which can mark the turning point in lives of many. Today let’s see how love turns out for many in both brighter and darker shades during the best days of our life.

Apart from all the butterflies you get in your stomach, what else good does our love buddy do to us, lets count -

1. One cannot ignore the immense mental and emotional support, you get from a loyal and caring lover. The point of life when you can’t discuss many things with your family and friends, that's when your Valentine plays a crucial role.

2. Love is a stress buster. Whether it be a normal chit-chat with your beau or a date out with your one

and only, it always releases the perfect chemicals in your brains that keeps your life calm and stressfree. Science has proved that cuddling and hugging reduce stress, so if you are not in this then my friend you are really missing out on some serious stressbuster sessions!!

3. So if your companion is little strict then it’s the high time your lives really gonna change my friend. It will be the high time when you will learn time management, that is managing time for both your special one and your career or studies. Punctuality will be the cream on the cake.

4. Many wandering and directionless souls have been found to get a track of their lives as they met their lover in these glorious years. The record suggests that many adults who were not good at studies did better under the influence of their studious partners.

5. Love in this stage of life gets you to know, what you see in your partner, even if this love thing doesn't work out for you in these days. And apart from all that you also get the best opportunity to share some of the best moments of your great life experiences together. Talking about your secrets, and feelings at a deeper level.

But, on a darker shade, we also cannot ignore the slightest possibility of love going totally wrong.

The way that it does change the life but for the worse -

1. History is filled with instances of adults getting totally deviated from their tracks after falling in love. For them love primarily becomes the single greatest thing in their lives. Be it their behavior or career, love pulls down everything. This turns out really worse when your companion is too demanding.

2. Love comes at a cost. Be it the cost in its normal sense or the cost of time. It is witnessed that

someone having a boyfriend or girlfriend, miss out their good cherishable moments with the friends.

This also comes at the cost of time as in certain professional courses needs more concentration and time for studies, thus they find it impossible to balance study and relationship together.

3. Being single sometimes helps to render more time to discover yourselves and focus your time on your individual motives and aspirations. Its the time for self-discovery and not a time when someone will hook you to a single spot. It's the time to fly high without responsibility in your heads of anyone.

With all this being said, taking the responsibility for someone else's happiness and being someone's happiness is the beautiful feeling that only love can render. The earlier you experience it the better lives will be. At this age, love teaches the magnificence of a selfless living. This precious emotion towards your someone special alters your outlook towards life completely. But sometimes this feeling also makes them become too much dependent on each other.

Whatever it is a magical experience or a bad decision in their lives. The quote will always be applicable at this stage of your life that

"Sometimes, one must get wet in the rain to enjoy the rainbow"